Learn the Communication Method I Teach My

$5K Clients to Say the Hard Things, Rebuild Intimacy,

and Get the Relationship They Actually Want

When you learn to say what you actually mean

— without starting a fight —

the resentment, shutdowns, and silent treatments melt away.

Sign up for instant access, watch on double-speed,

and have the conversation you’ve been avoiding — with words that actually land.

Your partner won’t know what hit them (but in the best way)!

WHAT YOU GET:

HERE'S HOW THIS WORKSHOP IS GOING TO CHANGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP:

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You’ll finally learn how to say what you really mean — without starting a fight or shutting your partner down.

  • You’ll stop bottling up resentment and start having the conversations that actually bring you closer.

  • You’ll get the exact tools I used to rebuild connection after we stopped feeling like lovers and started living like roommates.

  • You’ll walk away with real words that work — not vague advice or therapy-speak — so your partner can actually hear you.

What people are saying

This workshop was WOW

"I've been doing this work for over 10 years and I've never GOT IT like I did when Karen taught it."

- Kim F

WOWZERS

"Karen has a way of teaching things in such a simple and engaging way. I didn't realize how my communication skills actually haven't been THAT great. Now I know how I can do even better."

- Jen

I can do this

"When my wife first introduced me to polyamory I thought she was crazy. Now we are 3 years in and doing AMAZING thanks to Karen."

- Dave L

90 minutes with me: $500

Today's Price: $33

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How learning to communicate clearly

changed my relationship — and my life:

  • In 2015, I learned how to say what I actually meant — without starting a fight — and my partner finally heard me for the first time. It saved our connection.

What I thought was a “relationship issue” was actually a communication issue.

  • In 2018, I started teaching other people how to use this exact framework — and watched couples on the brink of separation come back to each other with softness and clarity.

    • By 2021, I turned that work into a premium coaching program - that has helped numerous clients find new connection and emotional resonance with their partners.

    • In 2025, I created this workshop to make this work accessible — and it’s already transforming how people show up in their relationships, one radically honest conversation at a time.

Here’s what I know for sure:

Real intimacy begins when you stop waiting to be understood — and learn how to communicate in a way that actually lands.


No defensiveness. No confusion. No disconnection.

Just truth, tenderness, and the tools to be heard.

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What You’ll Learn in This Workshop:

  • How to say what you actually mean — so your partner can finally hear you, without getting defensive or shutting down

    • How to ask for what you need without guilt, manipulation, or turning it into a fight

    • How to get clear on what’s really underneath the arguments (it’s not about the dishes, and you know it)

    • How to use words that bring you closer — even during hard conversations about jealousy, needs, or boundaries

    • How to stop the resentment spiral and start creating emotional safety with just one simple shift in how you speak

    • How to repair disconnect and bring back the intimacy — without begging, blaming, or pretending you’re fine

Here’s What I’ve Learned From Coaching Hundreds of Humans Through Real Relationship Breakdowns and Breakthroughs…

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People don’t build better relationships by solving the problems they think they have.
It’s not about the dishes, or who texts back faster, or who’s “too sensitive.”


Real change happens when you speak to the deeper truth they’re aching for —

to feel seen, safe, and wanted again.

By helping my clients name what’s

really going on beneath the shutdowns, jealousy, and resentment, I’ve watched relationships come back to life — not with years of therapy, but with just a few radically honest conversations.


Your relationship doesn’t need to end. It needs a reset.
Let me show you how to speak in a way that actually lands — and reconnect with the person you love.

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Ready to unlock the kind of communication that brings your partner closer — instead of pushing them away?

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This Is For You If:

  • You’re tired of having the same conversations on repeat — and still feeling like your partner just doesn’t get you.

  • You know your relationship has potential, but you keep tripping over miscommunication, shutdowns, or emotional distance.

  • You’ve tried talking, texting, therapy, or even taking space — but nothing seems to actually change the pattern.

  • Even when things feel “fine,” there’s still a lingering disconnect — and you’re craving real intimacy, not just surviving the day-to-day.

THERE'S A SOLUTION!

And it's yours for $33. Woot woot!

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Ready to transform your relationship?

Worried this is just another fluffy relationship workshop full of vague advice and recycled Instagram quotes?

Yeah… I wouldn’t show up for that either...

What this workshop IS:

✅ A step-by-step method to say what you actually mean — without starting a fight. Because clarity without compassion is just another kind of conflict.


✅ A powerful tool to help your partner finally hear you — and want to meet your needs. Yes, it’s possible. Even if you’ve been feeling unheard for years.

✅ A breakdown of the exact words and patterns that build emotional safety and real connection. No therapy degree required.


✅ A radically honest reset for anyone who’s tired of walking on eggshells.


If you're ready for change, this is where it starts.

What this workshop IS NOT:

🚫 A magic fix that saves your relationship overnight.

Yes, this workshop will absolutely change the way you communicate — but only if you actually apply it. If you're looking for a quick fix with zero effort, this isn't for you.

🚫 Some vague, feel-good class full of fluffy advice.

This is the exact communication framework I use with my $5,000 clients. You’re getting real tools — the kind that shift how your next conversation actually

goes.

🚫 A secret sales pitch wrapped in a lesson.

Yes, I have a bigger program. But this workshop stands on its own. You’ll leave with practical, ready-to-use scripts and strategies that can change your relationship right now.

🚫 A boring talk about “just communicate better.”

You’ve heard that before. This goes deeper — into the how, the why, and the emotional wiring that keeps you stuck in the same old arguments.

Ready to see what this workshop is about?

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About Your Coach: Karen Heap

Hey there, I’m Karen!


I help couples who still care deeply about each other—but feel emotionally disconnected—restore intimacy, safety, and love.

I’ve coached couples through years of resentment, sexual shutdowns, emotional distance, and painful disconnection… and I know what works.

This isn’t therapy.


It’s a real-time reset for your relationship.


One you can begin in just 90 minutes.

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